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Forces Penpals is the top military support, dating and social networking website for the US Armed Forces and their supporters. Join our Community to Support, Message, Chat, Write, and Date our Armed Forces.

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Supporting soldiers deployed in Afghanistan, Iraq and all over the world, our primary aim is to boost the morale of serving members of the Army, Navy, Air Force, Marines, National Guard and Coast Guard at home and abroad to actively engage the civilian population with those bravely fighting on our behalf....

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